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      <image:caption>Join psychologists Debbie Sorensen, Yael Schonbrun, Emily Edlynn, coach Michael Herold, and me as we co-host the POTC podcast, talking with well known experts about the best ideas from psychology to help you thrive in your work, parenting, relationships, and health. Listen wherever you get your podcasts, or click the button below to head to our POTC website.</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>Adam Dorsay chats with Jill on his podcast SuperPsyched to define and challenge the term "imposter syndrome" and explain why it should be called imposterism instead. They discuss why most of us feel imposterism at some point, how to respond to it so it doesn't get in the way of your values, and much more!</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>Are you plagued by self-doubt and the fear of being found out as an imposter, even when you've got the goods to back it up? Well, prepare to find solace in your struggle as Patrick and Jill dive deep into the psychology behind Impostor Syndrome. They'll strip away the masks we wear and explore the fundamental torment of feeling like an imposter in roles we genuinely care about.</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>Have you ever experienced the unsettling feeling of not being good enough despite all of your achievements? Do you fear being exposed as a fraud in your professional life? Prepare to be enlightened as we discuss the uncomfortable reality of imposterism with our extraordinary cohost, seasoned psychologist, and eminent author, Dr. Jill Stoddard.</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>Some people are perfectionists and others can’t ask for help. I developed a quiz for you to determine which of the 5 Imposter types you are. Gaining self-awareness puts you one step closer to shedding your self-limiting beliefs and living a big, bold, beautiful life. Click below to take the free quiz. I’m “The Expert”—which one are you?</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>Avoidance comes in many forms, but most of us have our go-to strategies. Some of us overthink, some of us overdo, and some of us numb or escape. Once we are aware of our avoidance strategies, we can start to make more intentional choices. Click below to the take free quiz!</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>Growing up I never felt good enough. I was called ‘tubby,’ ‘little tubette,’ and ‘tubby tubby two by four.’ I tried to people-please my way to love and acceptance, being who I thought others wanted and needed me to be. I got good grades. Was the president of student council. Followed (most of) the rules and was nice and polite. It never occurred to me to consider who I wanted to be and how I wanted live. If you’re here, you probably know the drill. Something made you feel less than and you’ve been working your whole life to compensate for it. Maybe you’re an overachiever trying to prove you’re not a fraud. Maybe you avoid challenge for fear of rejection, failure, or being found out. I used to do both. But in 2001 I was introduced to psychological flexibility and I’ve been cultivating a bold and meaningful life and career ever since. Don’t get me wrong—it has not been easy or pain-free, quite the contrary. But I have used the very same science-backed tools I share with clients to achieve big and purpose-driven goals. It is my mission to share those skills through keynotes, webinars, workshops, podcasts, books, and individually through therapy and coaching. If you want to work with me in any of those formats, you can schedule a free 30 minute consultation by clicking the button below or reach out through my contact page.</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>As a behavioral science expert and professional speaker, I help high performing individuals, leaders, and teams execute at their best when pressure, uncertainty, and discomfort are unavoidable. Whether it’s a one hour webinar, live keynote, two-day workshop, fireside chat, book club meeting, or anything in between, I am passionate about providing transformative experiences that are based in the latest psychological science but translate to everyday skills you can implement immediately. For more information, use the buttons below to check out my speaker reel and download my speaker sheet. If you would like to request me for your event, please complete the form at the bottom of the page or schedule a free 30 minute consultation so we can meet and discuss your vision. Signature Keynote: Flexible Under Fire: The FLEX Framework for Performing Under Pressure</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>Learn how to skillfully apply the six core processes of ACT to build the psychological flexibility your clients need to overcome psychological distress. You’ll learn breakthrough techniques not found in other ACT trainings and you will leave being able to put ACT into practice.</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>In this workshop, learn Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) techniques to help clients manage their imposterism and live up to their full professional potential—without being usurped by the crippling burden of self-doubt. You’ll explore why your clients (and you!) develop imposter thoughts, fall into traps trying to outrun the imposter experience, and how to take actionable steps toward cultivating psychological flexibility—the main goal of ACT---to move confidently in the direction of your most deeply held values.</image:caption>
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      <image:title>live &amp; on-demand offerings - Helping Clients Live Mighty Lives with Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (1.25 CE hrs)</image:title>
      <image:caption>Curious about ACT? Get started with this intro to see if you want to dig deeper with the courses above!</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>This intermediate-level webinar will examine the six core processes of ACT, highlighting the role of language in psychological inflexibility and demonstrates how metaphors and experiential exercises can enhance therapeutic impact. 3 CE’s for only $59.</image:caption>
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      <image:title>live &amp; on-demand offerings - Using ACT to Help Clients (and Yourself!) Overcome Imposter “Syndrome” (3 CE hrs)</image:title>
      <image:caption>In this on demand training, Dr. Jill Stoddard will help participants learn how to use ACT to help themselves and their clients to overcome imposterism so they may build a full and meaningful life and career. 3 CE’s for only $59.</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>Are you the Perfectionist, the Natural Genius, the Expert, the Soloist, or the Super Human? Click the button below to take our quiz and find out!</image:caption>
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      <image:title>Imposter &amp; Avoider quizzes - Did you know there are 5 types of avoider?</image:title>
      <image:caption>Are you the Thinker, the Otherer, the Pulsive, the Doer, or the Hider? Click the button below to take our quiz and find out!</image:caption>
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      <image:title>other media - I’ve been asked for my two cents on a number of psychology-related topics.</image:title>
      <image:caption>Check out the pieces below to see what I had to say about anxiety, stress, imposterism, self-doubt, PTSD, anger, coping, gender issues, and more.</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>Managing the Pressure: Easing back into pre-pandemic life Dr. Jill Stoddard, a clinical psychologist at the Center for Stress and Anxiety Management, said there is a fair amount of reentry concerns.</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>Uncertainty, fear of post-COVID life could be 'cave syndrome' Dr. Jill Stoddard shares how to cope with “cave syndrome” and anxiety as things open back up.</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>Coping with stress and worries linked to the COVID-19 pandemic Dr. Jill Stoddard discusses the mental health impact of the pandemic, as well as some tips on coping with stress and anxiety.</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>Going it Alone: Creative ways to celebrate Christmas during COVID-19 Dr. Jill Stoddard says appreciating the small moments can make a big difference with your mental health this holiday season.</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>Why Some Refuse to Wear Face Masks Dr. Jill Stoddard discusses the psychology and the role of anxiety in mask refusal.</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>New center in Carlsbad is raising awareness for traumatic brain injuries Jill appears on Good Morning San Diego with her client Lance discussing traumatic brain injury (TBI).</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>"Stoddard is masterful at using her extensive training as a psychologist to address the why of impostor feelings while providing a blame-free practical guide to claim our power and confidence." -EVE RODSKY, best-selling author of Fair Play, a Reese Witherspoon book selection and Hello Sunshine Documentary</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>“Be Mighty is an empowering guide to living with more joy and courage. Stoddard writes with a refreshing mix of compassion and humor. Every chapter is peppered with ideas and strategies that have the potential to change readers’ lives.” —Kelly McGonigal, PhD, author of The Joy of Movement, The Upside of Stress, and The Willpower Instinct</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>“As an ACT trainer and therapist, this is a must-buy! If you are looking for new, distinctive, and effective ways to deepen your clients’ understanding of ACT, your quest is at an end. Stoddard and Afari have pulled together a wonderful compendium of rich and effective metaphors that, when delivered in therapy, will create an engaging and meaningful experience. The wealth and variety of stories and exercises will meet the needs of many a client. I know I will return to this book again and again, and like few others on my shelf, it will be dog-eared, coffee-stained, and well-worn—thanks for putting together this terrific collection!”—Robyn D. Walser, PhD, author of seven ACT books, including The Heart of ACT, Learning ACT, and ACT for PTSD</image:caption>
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      <image:title>substack - Join Jill’s Substack</image:title>
      <image:caption>Every month I write a Two-Minute-Tips Substack article where I share accessible tools that are based on the latest psychological science but translate to everyday skills for flourishing at work and in life. I share personal experiences and stories that I hope will inspire readers to make bold changes in their own lives.</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>Many of us struggle with not feeling knowledgeable enough, like any minute we’re going to be found out for the inadequate frauds we are. Imposter Syndrome involves a complex interaction of thoughts, feelings, and behaviors. The good news is, I can help you break that cycle! The first step is understanding yours. Click the button for freebie on the cycle of imposter syndrome.</image:caption>
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      <image:title>freebies - Did you know there are FIVE different types of Imposter?</image:title>
      <image:caption>Some people are perfectionists and others can’t ask for help. I developed a quiz for you to determine which of the 5 Imposter types you are. Gaining self-awareness puts you one step closer to shedding your self-limiting beliefs and living a big, bold, beautiful life. Click below to take the free quiz. I’m “The Expert”—which one are you?</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>Check out this freebie for changing your relationship to thoughts and feelings so they no longer hold you back.</image:caption>
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